“In the day of prosperity be happy,
But in the day of adversity consider—
God has made the one as well as the other
So that man will not discover anything that will be after him.”
Ecclesiastes 7:14

Anytime a year comes to a close, it’s typical to look back and categorize it as being either “good” or “bad.” Frankly, for Ben and I, 2016 was really good. We were blessed with a year full of opportunities, personal growth, new relationships, and unending provision. Yet we know friends and family who were truly walking through the valleys simultaneously. It humbles and grieves me when I consider the loss, brokenness, loneliness and unimaginable pain experienced throughout this year.

The fact is that God has made days of prosperity AND adversity alike. We cannot avoid the latter nor expect the former. So whether we are living out the best years or just trying to make it through, we have been promised seasons of the other. Being able to put yourself in another’s shoes becomes so important during these times. And regardless of which side you fell on this year, there are always lessons to take away.

For those who’ve had a good 2016:

Have the amount of compassion to know when to be openly grateful and when to just listen. People are hurting all around us and it’s our job to be the ones to provide support. There will be years we find ourselves in trials, on the other side of the looking glass, in need of that very comfort.

For those who could not be more ready for 2017:

Every year will come with challenges of it’s own. But if you survived what seemed like the worst storm of your life this year, you can endure anything through His strength (James 1:2-3). Earlier, I described 2016 as a year of prosperity for us. Please know, however, it followed a 2015 filled with family tragedy, loss of multiple loved ones, and personal struggle. You have no idea what God has in store for your future, and His design was intentional in that way.

For EVERYONE:

Focus on what you DO have this year. If you have your health, celebrate that. If you are in a steady job that brings you fulfillment, be content. Recognize that there are people who have lost the things you take for granted on a daily basis. Hold your family a little tighter, keep your friendships a little closer, and make your days meaningful. If necessary, make a list of the good that happened this year, so it will be easier to avoid dwelling on only the bad.

We wish you and your family the best for 2017. Please let us come alongside you in prayer if you find yourself in days of adversity. Email hello@thewell.today.