Does it ever feel a little unfair that life doesn’t automatically become easier when you accept Christ? Where is our free pass for struggles and sorrow? And when do we get to learn the spiritually charged words to make all of our problems go away? Don’t worry, you’re not alone. But it turns out life is not all heart eyes and unicorn emojis — even for the people of God.

Even from the darkest expressions of sadness can come the hope of help. The despair of the psalmist, recorded in Psalm 119, leads to the promise of comfort and mercy. Out of tribulation can arise new understanding and strength. The psalmist freely expressed his feelings and his trust that God would take care of him.

“My soul clings to the dust” (v.25). Then a plea to God: “give me life according to your word”

“My soul melts away for sorrow” (v.28). Then the hope in God’s provision: “strengthen me according to Your Word.”

“I will run in the way of your commandments” (v.32). Even in the midst of deep trials, the psalmist was committed to obeying God.

Yes, express your despair to the Lord, but don’t stop there. Ask Him for mercy and strength. Commit to obeying Him. Cling to His promises in the Scriptures. He will be faithful to see you through any trial.